Five Pastoral Recommendations

To Prepare for End of Life

As a pastor, I’ve helped dozens of families with end of life care. I’ve also worked at a funeral home, assisting the directors and making first call visits when loved ones pass away. I also served as a volunteer police chaplain for many years. I recommend that seniors consider the following five things to prepare for the end of life:

1. Draft a legally binding will or living trust to outline how you want your assets and possessions to be distributed after your passing. This can help prevent disputes and ensure your wishes are honored.

2. Prepare an advance healthcare directive or living will to specify your medical preferences and appoint a healthcare proxy to make decisions on your behalf if you become unable to do so.

3. Consider prearranging your funeral or memorial service. This can relieve the burden on your loved ones and ensure your wishes for the funeral are known and followed.

4. Review your financial affairs, including life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and investments. Ensure your beneficiaries are up to date and that your financial records are organized for easy access.

5. Have open and honest discussions with your family and loved ones about your end-of-life preferences, including any specific medical care. Discuss your spiritual preferences and convictions for a funeral or memorial service.

These steps can help seniors prepare for the end of life, provide peace of mind, and make the process smoother for both them and their families.